What are you going to do on Mother’s Day? I don’t know who created this Hallmark holiday, but I am pretty grateful that they did. My son came to me the other day and asked, “Mom, what do you want for Mother’s Day?” I thought for a minute and couldn’t think of one thing that I needed or really wanted. My son still lives at home; he is one of the millions of young people who at the ripe age of 28 has not flown the coop. Oh, he tried, and left for college for a couple of years, but with the economy and the downturn of jobs available, the decision to come back home was a good one for him to make.
Imagine my surprise and delight when he asked me what I wanted. Secretly, I was thrilled. He is working now part time at about 35 hours a week and had a little money. I replied,” You know, what I would really like is not to have to cook dinner, but I don’t’ want to go out, steaks on the grill would be a treat and how about a movie.” The movie Thor is coming this weekend, and I love Natalie Portman and Chris Hemsworth is pretty easy on the eyes too. So, in a matter of about 2 minutes, we planned to have a nice dinner and a movie this weekend with my son to celebrate Mother’s Day.
Some mothers will receive flowers from their children who live far away and many more will go out to dinner with the massive crowds fighting for the seats in all the restaurants who offer special menus on days just like this one. I wish each and every mother a peaceful day with love surrounding them, no matter what their child offers. I am not a big fan of Hallmark holidays, but this one really tugs at the proverbial heart strings. My mother is still alive and as many times as she can annoy me, I would have it no other way. A mother’s love is like no other and they are very special people who try to protect us and nurture us and feed us and make sure we get to school and work on time. Mother’s fix skinned knees and hurt feelings all the while making us feel better. I have had the job of mother for 28 years and have enjoyed the work, the tears, even the worry and the ups and downs of parenthood. What a blessing it is to be a parent; I know I am speaking for some dads out there too.
No matter what you do or where you go or what gifts you receive or not. This is a special day to celebrate mothers, for without her, you wouldn’t be here and for that alone, Mother’s Day is a good day to celebrate.